tearsofademon: (I don't know if you would listen)
Ryner Lute ([personal profile] tearsofademon) wrote2014-03-14 03:51 pm

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All right, question.

[Despite how it's mid-afternoon, Ryner is flopped on his bed, hugging a pillow. He does have a notebook in front of him, though, so maybe he hasn't been napping for once? The tiny top hat-wearing Joltik on his neck certainly is taking a cute little snooze, though.]

How do you help someone to get over something? I mean, obviously the way I deal with things isn't gonna work for her, otherwise it'd be fine already, but I don't really have any other ideas, and it's been over a year... I just want everybody to move on already. Is that really too much to ask?

[Before he can continue, though, there's the sound of a cat-like creature jumping onto the bed, and an Espeon quietly dropping a note in front of Ryner's head, which he picks up and reads.]

Ahh, Jiru? Wha--oh. Ahh, I guess it is that time of year, isn't it. Nice of her to write a note this time...

[He reaches up to scritch the Espeon, who gives a happy "Eo~on" of approval at the attention.]

Haaa, guess the other part is, I've got eggs for sale. Again. Cleffas and Eevees, by the look of it. Delivery's not a problem, so just give me a couple minutes, I'll write up the egg moves they've got...

[The feed ends here, but a few minutes later a text file is attached with egg moves and prices.

(As of the time of this writing, there are still plenty of Cleffa eggs available if anyone wants them!)]
pipers_son: (leyline) (I would never do this in real life.)

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[personal profile] pipers_son 2014-03-14 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
'fraid I can't really help ya too much with that first business... Wouldn't mind buyin' an Eevee egg, 'tho.

[Joker's method of coping, after all, is ignore it as much as possible.]
usedfeatherdance: (Don't you wish your girlfriend...)

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[personal profile] usedfeatherdance 2014-03-15 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
[ Did Josh just hear "get over something"? I think he did. ]

Hmm... that all depends on the type of something in question.
explosivecombat: (It's no accident that I've survived)

[personal profile] explosivecombat 2014-03-15 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
[...Well, while he's not interested in buying anything, the first part of this actually manages to catch his attention somewhat. So really, why not.

Text as always, because he really doesn't like talking the machine.]


From what I've gathered, the only way to help anyone in that sort of situation is to just sit there and listen to whatever they have to say on the subject, offer whatever words you can think of that they happen to like in response, and keep doing that until they stop talking about it.

I don't know if it helps so much as they just run out of things to say on the matter, but at least it seems to accomplish something.
haveyouseenalittlegirl: (Iron pipe of great justice)

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[personal profile] haveyouseenalittlegirl 2014-03-15 03:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Listening if they want to talk is always a good first step.
awesmazings: (☼ on the marble arch)

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[personal profile] awesmazings 2014-03-15 07:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Well... like others have said already, just being there for them and listening is the biggest thing you can do. It's gonna be a little hard to get someone to move on though, depending on the problem you're having..

[Jimmy shrugs a little, absently petting a baby Larvesta curled up in his lap.]

I wish I could help out more! But yaknow if ...you ever need someone to talk to, I'm always up for listening. ....Eheh, my name's Jimmy, by the way.

[He pauses for a moment, looking down at Inferno, who lets out happy little chirps every now and then.]

Also, do you have any more Eevee eggs for sale?
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[personal profile] francia 2014-03-16 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
[France's own expression is a bit strained. The third to his travel group has disappeared this morning.]

Time sometimes doesn't lessen pain. At best, a person can hope for it to become manageable. If you're on the outside of it, the best thing you can do is make the person certain that they know that you're there for them to listen if they want to talk or simply for companionship.
dreamsofahero: (generic back of head shot)

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[personal profile] dreamsofahero 2014-04-08 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
You're still having trouble with Rose and Marian?